Growing Pains

Growing up is hard to do... in the first phase (13-21 years old) also known as" a hell lot of fun " phase but then came the 2nd phase (22-26 years old)also known as the "slowing down" phase.
I was having lunch with some close friends of mine and somewhere along the line of our conversation came the topic of "growing up sucks etc..." After giving a second thought bout what my friend just blurted out... i realized that the increase in responsibilty makes it all complicating and less fun... very much unlike the fun-filled days of secondary and campus life.

We went on and on about working life, marriage,kids, arranged marriage even!!!, dealing with in-laws, relationships and basically everything that's bound to happen in the next couple of years... i read a friend's blog bout a week back and the entry was about one of her cousins getting married. That time it didn't affect me much but TODAY... BOOM!!! it struck me hard like never before...

This is as far as my thoughts wandered... walking any further might lead to a no-man's land.
Growing up is hard to do :) But when the time comes... i hope i'll be all geared up by then.